Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Happy 1st Birthday Cara!

Our little bundle of love celebrates her first birthday today. A year ago our lives changed forever when Miss Cara came into the world and into our hearts.

I have had such a fun time getting reacquainted with Cara. A lot has changed since we saw each other last October. Cara learned to crawl then walk with the help of an adult hand. She also started babbling a lot and even throws in a couple of words (I am working on ciao and zia). She is such a happy baby and seems to always been laughing and smiling. I am lucky that my sister-in-love started a blog so that I could keep up on Cara's life from Italy, but it isn't even close to the real thing. Miss Cara is going to make returning home very difficult!


I am so proud of Scott and Emily. They have a beautiful, sweet and smart baby girl and they are kind, loving parents. The first year has been fun and I am looking forward to what the years ahead have to offer.



Buon primo compleanno Miss Cara! We love you sooooo much! Tanti auguri!

Monday, July 30, 2007

I sat waiting for my father's plane to land. After spending four days at a conference in Minneapolis he was returning home. I looked around at the familiar surroundings of the Indianapolis airport, unable to believe that just a few weeks ago my husband and I had arrived there from Italy. Our whole vacation was waiting for us.

We packed a lot into the past few weeks including my cousin's wedding, my niece's first birthday, a cook out with my friends and trips to Philadelphia, Washington and Chicago. Some how the time flew by and our vacation together is rapidly coming to an end. How ironic that just a couple of days earlier I was feeling terribly homesick for Italy. Now at the airport I came became all to aware that my love affair with America would soon be over. Tears filled my eyes as I thought about my next trip to the Indianapolis airport: in just two days I would have to return there to say good bye to the Italian who is returning home a week before me.

Since meeting him some six years ago, airports have turned into a bitter-sweet place for me. It seems at the airports I am always saying "hello" to someone while at the same time saying "good bye" to someone else. I miss Italy, my town, my home, my Italian family and most of all my furballs, Opus and Roscoe. On the otherhand, I am not ready to say goodbye to my loved ones in America. I suppose that is just the way it is for the expat. I should be thankful that I have had the opportunity to live in two separate yet equally interesting countries. But for today, my glass appears to be half empty......

Sunday, July 08, 2007

Dear Italy,

You and I have had some great times. I have enjoyed all the many wonders you have to offer; your food is incredible, your wine is impeccable and your people are warm, friendly and open-hearted. I have loved almost every moment I have spent with you, but I have noticed that things have changed. I think it is time we take a break from each other. I am not saying we should break up, we just need some time apart. Please don't take it personal. It isn't you, its me. You see, though I have come to love you very much, there is someone else. Someone I have been in love with long before I ever knew you. I though I could forget about him, but being away just makes me miss him even more, America will always be in my heart.

For this reason, I think we should spend a month apart. I will use that time to reflect on what it is I want from our relationship. Please don't cry Italy, I really think this is all for the best. I believe that when the month has passed we will find that our relationship has been strengthened.

In the meantime I must rush back into the arms of my first love, America.

Addio Italy......

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

American Woman

The hardest part about being an expat (for me) are American holidays. I picture my fellow Americans gathering at picnics and BBQs, spending a lazy day at the lake or the beach, a quiet afternoon of relaxing in the sun and an evening of outdoor concerts topped off with a great fireworks display. Here in Italy it is just another day and I find a small amount of homesickness creeping into my heart. What pushes that homesickness out is the thought that in just five days, my toes will be touching American soil and I will find myself in the loving embrace of my family.

Since my move to Italy, I have a new found interest in history. It began with a curiosity of Roman history and wanting to learn more about more my new home. As time went on, I found myself becoming more and more interested in the history of my own country. Soon I was dusting off my old American history books (yes, I kept them) and reading about the story of the United States.

Living outside of the US has afforded me the opportunity to look back at my country and see it in a different perspective. Yes, I can say that we are not a perfect nation. It seems that the popularity of America is slipping on the international scene, but I still believe that America is a wonderful nation that is full of hope, prosperity, and freedom.

Several months ago I saw the movie "The Pursuit of Happyness". It is a true story about a struggling single father trying to survive and make a better life for himself and his son. During the movie there was a scene when the father and his six year old son are standing in a long line for a bed at a homeless shelter. A shelter worker comes outside and announces that there isn't any room left and the crowd disperses while grumbling. That night the father and son sleep on the floor of public bathroom. At that moment I felt almost embarrassed for America; how can one of the world's richest nations have so many people living on the street?

The father struggles to work while taking care of his son and also working for free as an intern at a stockbrokerage firm. By the end of the movie, we find out that this man, who at times didn't have money for food, ended up owning his own firm and became a multi millionaire. At that moment, I was proud of America. It truly is a nation of opportunity!

(me being patriotic at age 6)

I wish you all a wonderful 4th of July. Wherever you are, I hope you find a way to celebrate and appreciate America!

Happy Fourth of July!


When Thomas Jefferson was appointed to be the chief writer for the Declaration of Independence he was the age I am now, I mere 33 years old! He went to work and with the help of a few other guys, like Benjamin Franklin and John Adams, he finished the first draft within a few weeks. The Declaration is a beautifully written document outlining the reasons that the Americans wanted independence from England.

After a few rewrites, the Declaration of Independence was accepted by congress on July 2ND. "The second day of July, 1776, will be the most memorable epoch in the history of America," is what John Adams stated. He was wrong. America chose to remember July 4Th; the day that Congress formally adapted the Declaration of Independence.

What better way to celebrate the independence of America than by taking a moment to read what our forefathers wrote. This is what they wanted for the people of America....


IN CONGRESS, JULY 4, 1776
The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America




When in the Course of human events it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. — That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, — That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security. — Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.

He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.

He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.

He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.

He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their Public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.

He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.

He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected, whereby the Legislative Powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.

He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.

He has obstructed the Administration of Justice by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary Powers.

He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.

He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harass our people and eat out their substance.

He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.

He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil Power.

He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:

For quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:

For protecting them, by a mock Trial from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:

For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:

For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent:

For depriving us in many cases, of the benefit of Trial by Jury:

For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences:

For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies

For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws and altering fundamentally the Forms of our Governments:

For suspending our own Legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.

He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.

He has plundered our seas, ravaged our coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.

He is at this time transporting large Armies of foreign Mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation, and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty & Perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy the Head of a civilized nation.

He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.

He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.

In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince, whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.

Nor have We been wanting in attentions to our British brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.

We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these united Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States, that they are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the State of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. — And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.

— John Hancock

New Hampshire:
Josiah Bartlett, William Whipple, Matthew Thornton

Massachusetts:
John Hancock, Samuel Adams, John Adams, Robert Treat Paine, Elbridge Gerry

Rhode Island:
Stephen Hopkins, William Ellery

Connecticut:
Roger Sherman, Samuel Huntington, William Williams, Oliver Wolcott

New York:
William Floyd, Philip Livingston, Francis Lewis, Lewis Morris

New Jersey:
Richard Stockton, John Witherspoon, Francis Hopkinson, John Hart, Abraham Clark

Pennsylvania:
Robert Morris, Benjamin Rush, Benjamin Franklin, John Morton, George Clymer, James Smith, George Taylor, James Wilson, George Ross

Delaware:
Caesar Rodney, George Read, Thomas McKean

Maryland:
Samuel Chase, William Paca, Thomas Stone, Charles Carroll of Carrollton

Virginia:
George Wythe, Richard Henry Lee, Thomas Jefferson, Benjamin Harrison, Thomas Nelson, Jr., Francis Lightfoot Lee, Carter Braxton

North Carolina:
William Hooper, Joseph Hewes, John Penn

South Carolina:
Edward Rutledge, Thomas Heyward, Jr., Thomas Lynch, Jr., Arthur Middleton

Georgia:
Button Gwinnett, Lyman Hall, George Walton

Monday, July 02, 2007

Not Enough Hours in the Day

I started this blog as a way for my family to keep up on what I have been up to in Italy. It just seems that life gets so busy that there isn't enough time to write about all the wonderful things that have been going on. Not only is my blog suffering, but I am also a bit behind on my emails (and for this I am sorry).

And before any of you write to tell me what I terrible daughter I am for not leaving a message for my Dad on Father's Day, you should know that I spent 3 hours on the computer helping my Mom with her tribute. Click here to read what I had to say about my dear, sweet Dad.

There is much to write about and, I assure you, I will get to work on this blog soon and post about what we have been up to. It has been a busy month with the Italian finishing up the school year (he is a teacher). Our new friends, Deb and Don, came up for a visit when they were on vacation in Italy. It was the first time we had met in person (I met Deb through our blogs), but it felt as though we had known them for years. They were only here for one full day, but we packed a lot of fun into that Saturday.

We also had to deal with visa issues for our up and coming trip to the States, which included a day trip to Florence (and the American consulate's office there). I also spent last week at English camp (as a teacher NOT as a student). The camp was tucked away in the hills that border Romagna and Tuscany, a peaceful and picturesque setting. With 28 children between the ages of 6 and 11, I have a few fun stories to tell. I arrived home Friday morning with just enough time to sweep and dust the house before our Canadian friends (who live in Albania) arrived to spend the weekend with us. We had a wonderful time with these friendly folks, the highlight being the medieval festival we attended last night in Brisighella.

Sooner or later, I will get around to telling the stories. In the meantime, we are busy getting our bags packed and buying last minute gifts before we fly over the pond in just 8 short days. It will the Italian's first trip the States in three years and our very first journey there together. We are really looking forward to spending time with friends and family, especially with our sweet little niece who will turn one while we are there!
 

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